Comments on: Face Slapping: Edgy, Sexy, Exciting http://www.zenfetish.com/2007/01/20/face-slapping-upping-the-ante/ Another day at the office with Angela St. Lawrence, PhoneFemFatale Thu, 11 Mar 2010 21:52:24 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.1 By: ZenFetish » Blog Archive » Auld Lang Syne http://www.zenfetish.com/2007/01/20/face-slapping-upping-the-ante/#comment-15192 ZenFetish » Blog Archive » Auld Lang Syne Tue, 01 Jan 2008 02:32:02 +0000 http://www.zenfetish.com/2007/01/20/face-slapping-upping-the-ante/#comment-15192 [...] got hot and bothered, down and dirty, all fired up, queer kinky and lesbian lovely.  We loved every fucking minute of it and didn't even have [...] […] got hot and bothered, down and dirty, all fired up, queer kinky and lesbian lovely.  We loved every fucking minute of it and didn't even have […]

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]]> By: Suzy http://www.zenfetish.com/2007/01/20/face-slapping-upping-the-ante/#comment-4728 Suzy Wed, 24 Jan 2007 00:40:59 +0000 http://www.zenfetish.com/2007/01/20/face-slapping-upping-the-ante/#comment-4728 I guess I've been slapping the wrong set of cheeks:) Very interesting post as the subject of dispensing erotic pain is quite fascinating, especially from a women's point of view. Thanks! I guess I’ve been slapping the wrong set of cheeks:) Very interesting post as the subject of dispensing erotic pain is quite fascinating, especially from a women’s point of view. Thanks!

]]> By: Tom Allen http://www.zenfetish.com/2007/01/20/face-slapping-upping-the-ante/#comment-4693 Tom Allen Mon, 22 Jan 2007 18:58:35 +0000 http://www.zenfetish.com/2007/01/20/face-slapping-upping-the-ante/#comment-4693 Angela, face-slapping and related humiliations simply don't reach out and grab me. In fact, I'll confess to having a difficult time in understanding the thrill behind humiliation. I once read an essay by Fetish Diva Midori in which she asserts that many subs utilize humiliation play in order to learn how to strengthen their inner personalities. In one sense, dealing with humiliation in a controlled setting allows them to look fully at their own insecurities, thereby allowing them to go about some psychological rebuilding. This rather reminds me of the Rational Behaviorist models of psychology in which one is "cured" of a phobia by repeated exposure in controlled situations. But this wanders afield, doesn't it? I was once in a relationship in which in the course of things we tried a little humiliation play. It did absolutely nothing for either of us. I know it sounds counterintuitive, but for some reason being tied down and whipped was a lot more exciting than being slapped or spit upon. I'm really not sure why, but I have never given it much thought, either. Tom <a title="When you look into the abyss, the abyss also looks into you..." rel="nofollow" href="http://vanillaedge.wordpress.com"> </a> Angela, face-slapping and related humiliations simply don’t reach out and grab me. In fact, I’ll confess to having a difficult time in understanding the thrill behind humiliation.

I once read an essay by Fetish Diva Midori in which she asserts that many subs utilize humiliation play in order to learn how to strengthen their inner personalities. In one sense, dealing with humiliation in a controlled setting allows them to look fully at their own insecurities, thereby allowing them to go about some psychological rebuilding. This rather reminds me of the Rational Behaviorist models of psychology in which one is “cured” of a phobia by repeated exposure in controlled situations.

But this wanders afield, doesn’t it?

I was once in a relationship in which in the course of things we tried a little humiliation play. It did absolutely nothing for either of us. I know it sounds counterintuitive, but for some reason being tied down and whipped was a lot more exciting than being slapped or spit upon. I’m really not sure why, but I have never given it much thought, either.

Tom

]]> By: Angela http://www.zenfetish.com/2007/01/20/face-slapping-upping-the-ante/#comment-4692 Angela Mon, 22 Jan 2007 17:39:55 +0000 http://www.zenfetish.com/2007/01/20/face-slapping-upping-the-ante/#comment-4692 PQS... You forget I know you well. And I just bet I could create a circumstance in which the face slapping would make you very hot. xo PQS…

You forget I know you well. And I just bet I could create a circumstance in which the face slapping would make you very hot.

xo

]]> By: PQS http://www.zenfetish.com/2007/01/20/face-slapping-upping-the-ante/#comment-4673 PQS Mon, 22 Jan 2007 05:13:48 +0000 http://www.zenfetish.com/2007/01/20/face-slapping-upping-the-ante/#comment-4673 "Face-Slapping - Edgy, Sexy, Exciting" -- well, sometimes, I guess. But you forgot to add Painful. I like to keep my fillings intact, thank you. You slap-happy souls can have your fun sans moi. Enjoy! “Face-Slapping - Edgy, Sexy, Exciting” — well, sometimes, I guess. But you forgot to add Painful. I like to keep my fillings intact, thank you. You slap-happy souls can have your fun sans moi. Enjoy!

]]> By: David C. http://www.zenfetish.com/2007/01/20/face-slapping-upping-the-ante/#comment-4659 David C. Sun, 21 Jan 2007 18:44:52 +0000 http://www.zenfetish.com/2007/01/20/face-slapping-upping-the-ante/#comment-4659 Very hot, indeed, Miss Angela. You've certainly put me in my place a time or two. And there was no doubt at my end that you thoroughly enjoyed it. Thanks to Richard, too. Great website/blog. Seems any man with a penchant for FemDom games would be following his blog with great interest. I am going through it now and it is rich with resources, references and Richard's own personal journey. David Very hot, indeed, Miss Angela. You’ve certainly put me in my place a time or two. And there was no doubt at my end that you thoroughly enjoyed it.

Thanks to Richard, too. Great website/blog. Seems any man with a penchant for FemDom games would be following his blog with great interest. I am going through it now and it is rich with resources, references and Richard’s own personal journey.

David

]]> By: lit major http://www.zenfetish.com/2007/01/20/face-slapping-upping-the-ante/#comment-4658 lit major Sun, 21 Jan 2007 18:33:06 +0000 http://www.zenfetish.com/2007/01/20/face-slapping-upping-the-ante/#comment-4658 My face is always red when I'm with Mistress Angela; not because she slaps me but, well, just because I'm blushing or very, very excited. My face is always red when I’m with Mistress Angela; not because she slaps me but, well, just because I’m blushing or very, very excited.

]]> By: Mistress V http://www.zenfetish.com/2007/01/20/face-slapping-upping-the-ante/#comment-4640 Mistress V Sun, 21 Jan 2007 04:27:22 +0000 http://www.zenfetish.com/2007/01/20/face-slapping-upping-the-ante/#comment-4640 oooo I love smack that, nice beat to smacking someone. i love that look on their face, then when i do it again. well it make Me want smack other things. I miss you sista and hope we can talk soon........ hugz oooo I love smack that, nice beat to smacking someone. i love that look on their face, then when i do it again. well it make Me want smack other things.
I miss you sista and hope we can talk soon…….. hugz

]]> By: booklover35 http://www.zenfetish.com/2007/01/20/face-slapping-upping-the-ante/#comment-4638 booklover35 Sun, 21 Jan 2007 02:22:46 +0000 http://www.zenfetish.com/2007/01/20/face-slapping-upping-the-ante/#comment-4638 Angie says "There is an imagined suspension of safety, of boundaries desecrated that makes it absolutely transcending." Isn't it that sense which makes all good sex play satisfying: the feeling that, together, you have safely gone somewhere very new which previously had been forbidden to you? The best calls with Angie always meet that description. Angie says “There is an imagined suspension of safety, of boundaries desecrated that makes it absolutely transcending.” Isn’t it that sense which makes all good sex play satisfying: the feeling that, together, you have safely gone somewhere very new which previously had been forbidden to you? The best calls with Angie always meet that description.

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