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Cuckold Types

Tip-toeing around the web I found this incredible FREE website for cuckolds, CuckyBoy.  The site’s owner/operator is actually a cuckold and his passion for his kink is reflected in the incredible amount of content, including cuckold stories, personal ads and a forum.  It is simply divine, generous and overflowing with so many goodies that  you’ll want to bookmark it and visit often.

Below is Cucky Boy’s (methinks quite astute) breakdown of three "cuckold types" followed by his list of personality traits common in most cuckolds.  He’s obviously much more an expert than I am, but from what I’ve experienced via the kink-O-phone, he is most definitely right on target.  And I wonder when academia in all it’s "vanilla-ness" is going to address cuckolding, humiliation, erotic hypnotism and all the other stuff they just keep pretending isn’t out there.  Hmmm.  Because, quite frankly, Cucky Boy’s types and accompanying charactaristics should be in a text book some where. 

Cuckold Type 1 – The traditional cuckold

* The cuckold may have come to the lifestyle by finding out his wife is cheating
* There is a certain aspect of deviance by the cheating wife
* The cuckold can seem almost tortured by the cheating wife’s behavior
* The cuckolds say they enjoy it but if you really read what they’re saying in their posts or comments it’s almost as though they do not have choice and they lack of choice excites them
* At some level the cuckold does enjoy the emotional torture, much like a masochist
* They enjoy the humiliation aspects of cuckolding (wimp factor, knows his place, small penis)
* The slut wife sometimes includes him and sometimes she ignores him
* The cuckolds tend to be more submissive in all aspects of the relationship and the hotwives tend to be more dominant in all aspects
* The cheating wife may practice sexual denial with the cuckold

Cuckold Type 2 – The non-traditional cuckold

* Came to the lifestyle after talking the wife into it
* They love their hotwives having sex with other men
* Their hot wives enjoy teasing the cuckold and letting him be a part of it somehow (the cuckold is not necessarily always physically present with her and her lover, but she makes sure that he is a part of it by calling or telling him all the details when she arrives home)
* The cuckold and the slut wife are open about all aspects of the wives sexual activity, no deviance
* The cuckold enjoys the hotwife’s sluttieness and her sexual power over him
* The cuckold tends to have more desire and passion for his wife after she has been with another man
* These cuckolds tend to be only sexually submissive
* In all other aspects of the relationship the cuckold and wife are equal partners

Cuckold Type 3 – The Fem or Wimp Cuckold

* The cuckold enjoys feminization brought on by the hotwife
* The cuckold enjoys the forced femimization by the hot wife, made to wear panties, make up, bras, etc.
* The cuckold enjoys the humiliation of not being man enough to handle his wife
* The slut wife tends to be dominate in all aspects of the relationship
* The hot wife may or may not include the cuckold in her sexual activities
* The cuckold has definite bi-sexual tendencies
* The hot wife may use a strap on dildo on her fem cuck
* The hot wife may include the lover in using the cuck for her pleasure (oral and anal)

The following tendencies seem to be present in all types of cuckolds

* Cuckolds tend to be highly educated and rely on their minds a lot
* The difference between a strict hot wife relationship and a cuckold relationship is in the cuckold relationship the hotwife is always in sexual control, she is the one who makes the decisions about other men and often controls the sexual behavior of the cuckold. In a strictly Hot Wife relationship the husband will be in control of who the Hot Wife meets and fucks.
* Cuckolds tend to enjoy masturbation and fantasy
* Cuckolds are not necessarily very physical in their love making skills and tend to be more mental and emotional
* Cuckolds are not easily turned on by just the physical aspects of sex itself, they tend to need more mental, visual and aural stimulation then the average male
* Cuckolds may have less testosterone than say a Bull who can get excited by physical aspects of sex
* The act of being cuckolded is appealing because of its mental and emotional aspects and it is often long and drawn out over a period of time with the wife dating and such
* The cuckold loves feeling cucky angst for hours upon hours until the slut wife comes home and allows relief
* The cuckold my be fixated on the idea of his penis is not enough to pleasure his wife and take pleasure from her getting a larger cock for her lover
* It is very difficult to define a cuckold relationship, we are all different and ultimately if you call yourself a cuckold and your hotwife has sexual activity with other men and she controls it, then I guess you are one
* Real cuckold couples are rare
* Real Bulls are rare

17 Responses to “Cuckold Types”

  1. Mr. Smith Says:

    Fascinating and informative. I’m with you, Angela, in believing Cucky Boy knows what he is talking about. I learned a lot. And while I would never find this an acceptable “lifestyle choice” for myself, I can appreciate and respect that it works for Cucky Boy.

    Thank you and thanks to Cucky Boy for a vigorous website, into which he obviously puts a lot of work and devotion. I respect and appreciate you both.

  2. HDB Says:

    And here I thought that Cucky Boy was someone that worked in a pickle factory. Hmmm, maybe…

  3. Vanilla Savant Says:

    A really informative post, Angela; thanks as always for opening my eyes.

  4. Jesse G. Says:

    Very accurate, I’d say from what I know. I’ve never done any realistic cuckolding, but I’ve had plenty of fantasies that circle around cuckolding. The small penis humiliation plays into it for me. So does the black angle. If I ever brought any of this to my marital bed, I’d be divorced quicker than you can say I DO, because my wife would be saying I DON’T and we are DONE. But a guy can dream, can’t he?

  5. The Professor Says:

    I promise you I read every word and visited the site.

    I am speechless.

  6. science nerd Says:

    It seems we now have the definitive reference on cuckolding. Once again, Angela tantalizes and educates with Cucky Boy as her expert witness today.

  7. Dinoo Says:

    So clear, I think, that everybody has to follow this reference.
    I belong, in this reference, to the non-traditional ones.

    It is indeed very difficult to define a cuckold relationship.
    My wife is against humiliating, in the pure meaning of this word. At last we did find a solution: it is being sexual submissive.
    She will be happy with this reference. Isn’t that important too?

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  9. bob b Says:

    i am a cuckold to a mistress, what i would like to read more about is this type of relationship, she controls when and if i cum as i am there to plzr her. i am not permitted sex with anyone other then her and my only release is cumming on her pussy, but always have to clean it up after or i dont get to cum,
    we would like to find more articles relating to this type of relationship

  10. cb3000 Says:

    For me my Wife having another lover became acceptable after she began requiring me to wear a cb-3000 chastity device.

  11. Philip Says:

    Due to several illnesses I can no longer achieve an erection. I recently found out that she has 2 fuck buddies starting at her Rotary Xmas party this past December, She had been attracted to him for years beginning to flirt with him a few months earlier. This night she asked him to walk her to her car parked across the street in a public lot where she blew him in her car. Since than they have been hooking it twice a month. In addition she began screwing her former gym work out partner after he separated from his wife 2 or 3 times a week.
    I as informed of this via an e-mail from her disgruntled ex-employee she had fired. When I told her of what I knew she readily admitted all. At first I was hurt, angry & ashamed, but after much thought & discussion I find it exciting & am pleased. She has since gone very “public” about her escapades much to my delight. So a cuckold by circumstances,

  12. Philip Says:

    PS I am white, she is black & both her fuckers are Latin.

  13. CuckyBoy Says:

    I’m a combo of type 2 & 3. Wife cucked me after me asking her to. It went on for a couple years now she refuses to. Hard adjusting without it now. So I fantasize alot!

  14. CuckyBoy Says:

    She does me with a strap on now and then.

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  16. Mike Says:

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  17. self hypnosis Says:

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